I’ve known a several guys who’ve lost their head over a woman (I worked among students for many years). Most of the time things turned out pretty well, and many of these infatuations blossomed into strong marriages. But occasionally, a train wreck occurs.

Sheba, described only as a troublemaker, launched a new rebellion as David struggled to regain his footing after the debacle with Absalom. Sending his best, David’s men cornered Sheba and his boys in a walled city called Abel Beth Maakah.

As they began to batter down the walls, a wise woman called from the other side for Joab, the commander, hoping to save her city from destruction. She discovered that all Joab wanted was to get his hands on Sheba—hand over this one man, and I’ll withdraw from the city.

The unnamed woman’s response? His head will be thrown to you from the wall. Outraged at Sheba and his rebels, this woman immediately grasped how to save the innocent townspeople and her family caught in the crossfire.

The woman shared her plan with the people, who quickly chopped off Sheba’s head and lobbed it over the wall. Joab hefted the grisly trophy, the destruction halted, and peace returned to the city.

Sheba lost his head in the bargain—a small price to pay. Occasionally common sense prevails. Be grateful when it arrives. Pray for folks like this wise woman from Abel Beth Maakah to join you within your walls.

2 Samuel 20 in reading the Bible in 2023

Photo by Jason Abdilla