I hate to miss a meal, so I find fasting a burdensome activity. Prayer is another difficulty, as my mind wanders like a lost tourist when I sit quietly for a few moments. Most spiritual practices require discipline, and I find them challenging.
But one command far exceeds all others in complexity—love your brother and sister.
John explained it this way: We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
John’s wrote to an unraveling community of faith. His words echo those of Jesus, heard by John’s own ears, to love your neighbor as yourself. But loving a brother or sister in the faith proved too difficult to many in his audience, just as it proves too difficult for many Christ followers today.
This stark proposition burns my ears. If I cannot love those who share my same faith, who worship under the same roof, who also attempt to walk with Jesus, then I do not love God. My lack of love for others provides damning evidence. I cannot say I’m a Jesus follower and at the same time cling to resentment and hate toward my brother and sister.
How to escape? I must plead for the Holy Spirit to intervene, to help as Jesus promised, to enable me love by faith. I ask the Holy Spirit to crack my heart, to think his thoughts, to renew my mind, and to shoot me up with a dose of humility.
I do not possess the inherent ability to love those I find objectionable, even those in my community of faith (especially those in my community of faith). Only by leaning into the power of the Holy Spirit might I somehow find the capacity to do so.
1 John 4 in Through the Bible in 2024
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